How you do one thing, is how you are going to do everything else. Whether it be consciously or unconsciously. A person who has problems controlling their emotions will be the easiest adversary to defeat, because their anger will blind them. Anger stops an individual from seeing what is right before their eyes, due to their emotions being out of whack. When your emotions are high, your intelligence is low, because your emotions  will be clouding your rational mind, leading you to not reason clearly. Have you ever heard of a person committing murder and had no criminal background? They say they blacked out and did not remember what happened. Some do black out and others do not, but both become a victim to their emotions. They are filled with such rage, that their lower nature takes over. Even close relatives and friends of that person have problems believing that they did the act. That person’s emotions were so high, that they lost control and did something out of their character.

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One of the attributes of being a great fighter, relies on a person being a great active listener. Actively listening to someone is different from hearing someone and fighting against someone is different from being in a fight with them. In hearing another person, sound is just going in your ears, it is not a mental skill where you are weighing everything they are giving you. Active listening requires a different skill. In this, you act accordingly to what the person is telling you or suggesting and pay attention to all the small cues. An example of this is being aware of a person's tone of voice, eye contact, mannerisms, the flow of their speech, what they say, what they do not say, and being aware of their physical habits and how they change when certain matters are brought up. It is a mental attribute. If you are 100 percent present when you are with someone in conversation, you will be present to your adversary when they are launching an attack your way. You will use that day to day...